WAIT... ONLYFANS??
So let me give a little background before we get into this screenshot.
I've been talking to this guy for maybe two weeks, tops. Nothing serious. Just light conversations in the inbox here and there. You know the usual:
"Good morning."
"How's your day going?"
"Any plans today?"
That type of thing. We'll talk for a day or two, then maybe miss a day, then pick it back up again. Nothing deep yet. We haven't even made it to an actual date or real conversation outside the app. Just casual back-and-forth messages.
Now here's where things get… interesting.
I mentioned that I spent the day sitting in and updating my website. Simple. Normal conversation, right?
Out of nowhere, this man responds and asks if I mean OnlyFans.
🤨🤨🤨
Now hold on a second… Where did that even come from? I literally sat there looking at my phone. Did I miss something in the conversation? Did I say something wild? Did I drop some kind of hint without realizing it?
Because from what I can see — and you can see it in the screenshot — I said absolutely nothing that would lead anyone to jump straight to OnlyFans. Nothing.
Now don't get me wrong. I'm not knocking the women on OnlyFans at all. Those girls are getting their money and doing their thing.
But my question is… Why was that your first thought about me?
We've barely talked. I've never mentioned anything remotely close to that. No spicy conversation. No wild hints. No nothing.
So now I'm sitting here wondering… Are there really that many women on these dating apps doing OnlyFans that men just automatically assume it? Or did this man just decide to freestyle a random assumption about me?
And then the "Lol" afterwards like it's funny.
Sir. Explain yourself.
Because now I'm trying to decide if I should even continue this conversation or just move on to the next one.
Welcome to online dating.
Btw: our ages are 41 and 49 yrs old
"This is exactly what happens when you entertain potential instead of reality."
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